What to Look for When Choosing Wedding Party Gifts
You want to find gifts for your wedding party and you want them to feel thoughtful. Your wedding party has spent time and money to be part of your wedding. You need ideas that show appreciation and match each person.
A wedding party gift is a gift given to bridesmaids, groomsmen, and other wedding party members to show appreciation. The best wedding party gifts are personal, practical, or commemorative. They should not be generic items that could be for anyone.
What to Look for in a Wedding Party Gift
1. It Shows Appreciation
The gift should show genuine appreciation for their time, effort, and support.
2. It Is Personal
A gift that matches each person interests is more meaningful than a generic one-size-fits-all gift.
3. It Is Quality
One quality item is better than several cheap ones. Quality shows you value them.
4. It Commemorates the Wedding
A gift that references the wedding or your relationship is a meaningful keepsake.
5. It Is Within Budget
Wedding party gifts should be within a reasonable budget, usually $25 to $75 per person.
Wedding Party Gift Ideas by Role
For Bridesmaids
| Gift Idea | Budget | Why It Works |
|---|---|---|
| A custom piece of jewelry | $25 to $50 | A lasting keepsake |
| A personalized robe or pajamas | $25 to $50 | Practical for getting ready |
| A nice cosmetic bag | $20 to $40 | Practical and personal |
| A custom tote bag | $15 to $25 | Practical and personal |
| A quality candle | $15 to $25 | Cozy and thoughtful |
| A nice bottle of wine or champagne | $15 to $40 | Celebratory |
| A custom photo frame | $15 to $25 | Commemorates the wedding |
| A spa gift card | $50 to $100 | Relaxation before the wedding |
For Groomsmen
| Gift Idea | Budget | Why It Works |
|---|---|---|
| A nice bottle of whiskey or spirits | $30 to $60 | A special bottle |
| A set of whiskey glasses | $20 to $40 | Practical and special |
| A quality wallet or card holder | $20 to $40 | Practical upgrade |
| A nice pocket knife or multi-tool | $25 to $50 | Always handy |
| A custom engraved item | $20 to $50 | One of a kind |
| A nice pair of socks | $10 to $15 | Practical and fun |
| A quality keychain | $15 to $25 | Small and personal |
| A nice cigar or accessory | $20 to $40 | For the celebration |
For Maid of Honor / Best Man
| Gift Idea | Budget | Why It Works |
|---|---|---|
| A custom piece of jewelry (premium) | $50 to $100 | A milestone keepsake |
| A nice watch | $50 to $150 | A milestone keepsake |
| A spa day or massage | $50 to $150 | Relaxation after the wedding |
| A nice dinner out | $50 to $150 | A shared celebration |
| A custom engraved item (premium) | $40 to $80 | One of a kind |
| A weekend trip together | $100 to $500 | A shared adventure |
For Flower Girls and Ring Bearers
| Gift Idea | Budget | Why It Works |
|---|---|---|
| A nice book or toy | $10 to $20 | Age-appropriate and fun |
| A small piece of jewelry | $10 to $20 | A keepsake |
| A fun accessory | $10 to $15 | Fun and personal |
| A small gift card | $10 to $20 | Lets them choose |
| A nice stuffed animal | $10 to $15 | Fun and sweet |
Wedding Party Gift Ideas by Category
1. Personalized Keepsakes
| Gift Idea | Budget | Why It Works |
|---|---|---|
| A custom piece of jewelry | $25 to $50 | A lasting keepsake |
| A custom engraved item | $20 to $50 | One of a kind |
| A custom photo frame | $15 to $25 | Commemorates the wedding |
| A personalized tote bag | $15 to $25 | Practical and personal |
| A custom keychain | $10 to $20 | Small and personal |
2. Practical Gifts
| Gift Idea | Budget | Why It Works |
|---|---|---|
| A quality wallet or card holder | $20 to $40 | Practical upgrade |
| A nice cosmetic bag | $20 to $40 | Practical and personal |
| A personalized robe or pajamas | $25 to $50 | Practical for getting ready |
| A quality keychain | $15 to $25 | Small and personal |
| A nice travel mug | $15 to $25 | Practical for daily use |
3. Consumable Gifts
| Gift Idea | Budget | Why It Works |
|---|---|---|
| A nice bottle of wine or spirits | $15 to $40 | Celebratory |
| A box of artisan chocolates | $15 to $25 | Classic and always welcome |
| A gourmet food basket | $25 to $50 | Thoughtful and consumable |
| A specialty food item | $10 to $20 | Matches their taste |
| A coffee or tea gift set | $15 to $25 | For their morning |
4. Experience Gifts
| Gift Idea | Budget | Why It Works |
|---|---|---|
| A spa day or massage | $50 to $150 | Relaxation |
| A nice dinner out | $50 to $150 | A shared celebration |
| A weekend trip together | $100 to $500 | A shared adventure |
| A concert or show | $50 to $200 | A fun outing |
| A cooking class together | $50 to $150 | An experience to share |
Wedding Party Gift Ideas by Budget
Under $15
- A nice pair of socks.
- A small candle.
- A custom keychain.
- A nice pen.
- A specialty food item.
- A nice card with a handwritten message.
$15 to $25
- A quality candle.
- A custom tote bag.
- A nice travel mug.
- A box of chocolates.
- A coffee or tea gift set.
- A nice bottle of wine (budget).
$25 to $50
- A custom piece of jewelry.
- A personalized robe or pajamas.
- A nice bottle of wine or spirits.
- A quality wallet or card holder.
- A set of whiskey glasses. | A custom engraved item.
- A nice cosmetic bag.
$50 to $100
- A spa gift card.
- A nice dinner out.
- A nice watch.
- A custom piece of jewelry (premium).
- A weekend trip (contribution).
How to Choose the Right Wedding Party Gift
1. Make It Personal
The best wedding party gift matches each person interests. Take the time to choose something specific for each person.
2. Show Appreciation
The gift should show genuine appreciation for their time, effort, and support. Include a handwritten note.
3. Commemorate the Wedding
A gift that references the wedding date, your relationship, or the role they played is a meaningful keepsake.
4. Choose Quality
One quality item is better than several cheap ones. Quality shows you value them.
5. Stay Within Budget
Wedding party gifts should be within a reasonable budget. $25 to $75 per person is common.
FAQ
What are good wedding party gifts?
Good wedding party gifts show appreciation and are personal: a custom piece of jewelry, a personalized robe, a nice bottle of wine or spirits, a quality wallet, a custom engraved item, a spa gift card, or a nice dinner out. The key is choosing something that matches each person.
How much should I spend on wedding party gifts?
For a standard gift, $25 to $50 per person is common. $50 to $100 for the maid of honor or best man. A spa day or weekend trip can be $100 to $500. The thought and personalization matter more than the price.
How do I make wedding party gifts feel personal?
Make it personal for each person, show appreciation, commemorate the wedding, choose quality, and stay within budget. A gift that is specific to each person is more meaningful than a one-size-fits-all gift.
Should I give the same gift to everyone in the wedding party?
You can, but personalizing each gift is more meaningful. If you give the same gift, choose something universally appealing and add a personal note for each person.
References
- The Knot. “Wedding Party Gift Guide.” theknot.com.
- Real Simple. “Wedding Party Gifts.” realsimple.com.
- Good Housekeeping. “Wedding Party Gift Ideas.” goodhousekeeping.com.
- Brides. “Wedding Party Gift Guide.” brides.com.
- Today. “Wedding Party Gift Ideas.” today.com.
